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voxer coaching

Texting anxiety? Friends asked you to come to hang out? Not sure how to respond to your manager? Open the Voxer App!

Whether your goal is to make more friends, have a career that fulfills you, or want to make conversations easier, let’s talk about it together.

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You’re here because you’re worried that you’ll mess it up the moment you open your mouth or try to be vulnerable, and everyone will be there to see it. You do everything you can to avoid that from happening, but doing so keeps you from well, living your best life.

Social anxiety has a way of ruining everything. You want to be promoted, make friends, go on dates, and enjoy conversations, all without feeling like you’re one step away from being rejected. It’s this constant energy drain because it takes up so much mental space. 

How amazing would it be to feel comfortable in your body without worrying that someone’s judging you? It’s possible! I spent a decade trying to figure out how to stop social anxiety from holding me back in all areas of my life. Once I did, the world opening up to me.

I’m here to show you that it’s possible for you too. 

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This is a good fit for you if...

You should consider this if...

You’re uncomfortable talking on camera as you need time to process information and share your struggles. Being on a video call can be pretty intimidating especially if you freeze or have physical symptoms associated to social anxiety.

You don’t have time to schedule meetings. We all lead busy lives, live in different time zones, and juggle multiple jobs. With the Voxing coaching you don’t have to worry about any of that.

You need ongoing support and guidance as you’re running into a difficult phase in your life. This is a great option for that on-the-spot thought you have or situation you’re running into.

You want to get “back on track” because your social anxiety is flaring up. Social anxiety comes in and out of our lives; maybe this is a moment it’s visiting you and you’d like a cheerleader on your side.

Why you should start voxin'

Social anxiety is contextual

If you’re struggling in just one area of life with social anxiety, we’ll target that one and make it more manageable for you. If you’re lacking dates or friends, we’ll focus on improving your confidence in those areas and getting you moving.

In the moment debilitating

If you’re not sure when it’s about to pop-up but it does on a frequent basis, you’ll be able to reach out to me in those moments so that I can better guide you out of them or to at least minimize their impact on your mindset.

Have an accountability buddy

You’re managing your social anxiety, but you still can’t get yourself to do the things you know will move the needle. I’m here to help you show up scared and be your biggest cheerleader.

A more personalized approach

I understand how hard it is to translate advice you find online to your own life and situation. By having me at your fingertips, we can strategize and talk about the things that matter to you and get a third-party perspective.

now showing up on video or calls

Perfect for
introverts & HSPs

no pressure (connect when you want)

for busy people who need time to process

1 Week Unlimited

$ 190
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1 Month Unlimited

$ 390
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3 Months Unlimited

$ 850
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social anxiety expert

Hi, I'm Roxana Alexandru

I help introverts who feel inadequate, boring, unworthy, and misunderstood. I'll help you go from scared-of-being-judged-forever to nothing-can-hold-me-back introvert.

I know what it feels like to be so mentally exhausted from social anxiety that you never want to leave your home or deal with people. After years of being debilitated by it (to the point of not even being able to make eye contact with friends), I found a way to manage it successfully.

My experiences and journey made me an expert.

about me social anxiety expert


Frequently Asked Questions


Anything!Β  Everything! How you feel in certain situations, why you feel that way, and what you can do about it. Walk through the details of a particular encounter and break it down to see what happened and what triggered you. The list is endless, depending on what you want to focus on.

If you want to progress in your career, quit your job, become an influencer, open an online business, make friends with the neighbors, work on public speaking skills, deal with difficult people, or go out to happy hours…without having social anxiety to worry about. That’s just naming a few things!

Absolutely. I tend to go above and beyond to make sure I give people the support they need when they need it. Outside of my sleeping hours, I’ll be flexible to respond.

Once you agree to the terms and complete payment, you’ll receive an e-mail with the confirmation and a calendar to select a time that works for you. Before we start, you’ll have a form to fill out with some questions for me to understand you better

Then you’ll have unlimited access to me Monday-Friday, 9 AM to 4 PM CET via the Voxer app.

It’s very easy to use and is used by most coaches online. I can help you set it up, and we can connect there via text or voice.

I’m on my phone all day long. Within the business hours stated, it will never take longer than an hour for me to respond to you.Β 

No, I’m not filling in the role of therapy. I highly recommend treatment as I’ve gone through it myself and see the benefit. A coach, which is how I describe myself, complements your therapy sessions. Each has pros and cons, so you have to decide what you need in your life right now.

As a social anxiety expert, I’ve walked in your shoes (and still am!), so I know precisely every feeling and thought you have, which is where my value comes in.

Awkward together

TheΒ “Be socially confident” newsletter drops weekly to inspire, entertain, motivate, and educate you about social anxiety (who knew it could be so much fun?!). Honestly, if anything, you’ll get a kick out of my own experiences and the funny GIFs.

Call me Rox!

I’m obsessed with social anxiety. In a healthy way! After a decade of being debilitated by it, I finally have the tools I need to manage it (the journey itself is no joke). I now use my experience to help others.

I'm Roxana Alexandru

Coach. Content Creator. Introvert. Mom. Lifelong learner. Psychology lover. Awkward human. Welcome.